I'm a very anxious person and often get into fights with my parents and boyfriend over insignificant things. I make A LOT of mistakes which I will now into this guide. I hereby present: How NOT to Fight. Lose control. This is important. You have to make sure that you are not feeling in control … Continue reading How NOT to Fight
I have huge problems staying by myself. It's mainly connected to my borderline personality disorder, bit also a pain. I wish I could be more autonomous and am working on it. I hope to manage but, in the meantime, I present the guide on How NOT to Stay Alone. 1. Be anxious. Make sure your … Continue reading How NOT to Manage being Alone
I have exams in a little over a week and though I already wrote a "How NOT to Study" post, I now feel the need to explain some of the mistakes I realize I'm making. First of all, I'm exhausted. To the point where by the end of the day I can't even watch TV … Continue reading How NOT to Study – Reprise
These last few months have been tough, very. When you have a psychiatric disorder you like your external world stable, espescially since your inner existence is so screwed up. I live in Italy. The lockdown was long, really long (about three months to be precise). Of course, dysfunctional as I am, I did NOT deal … Continue reading How NOT to Survive a Lockdown
I'm particularly adapt at this, I have a series of tips and tricks which are guaranteed to promise you a horrible time: let's get started! 1. Hiding. This of course is method number one. Say you've been dragged to a party against your will, or you're on an outing with friends because for some reason … Continue reading How NOT to Deal with Social Contexts
Just as the title says, a guide on how NOT to follow lessons.
Travelling is fun. Everybody enjoys visiting new places, learning new customs and finding themselves immersed in a completely different culture. Whether for a more cultural or adventure packed trip, you're bound to have a lot of fun. Activities are great, as is sightseeing, trying the local cuisines and walking around new places in general. There … Continue reading How Not to Travel
I, like so many others, have had my fair share of messed up, wrong and just generally dysfunctional relationships. Whether it my or their fault, these partners often even somehow contributed to the issues that I now have. Nonetheless, I have learnt a few things, specifically: how NOT to be in a relationship. 1.Over-clinginess. I … Continue reading How NOT to Be in a Relationship
This is a problem many people have, it may even be what may be considered the downside (if one must insist on finding one) of videogames and the reason why there are South Korean children able to beat you and a team of five by themselves. With my incredibly dysfunctional lifestyle, I have found that … Continue reading How NOT to Play Videogames (obsessive playing)
I welcome you to part two of this post, if you haven't already read the first go check it out! What I want to discuss today is reading lists, the very reason why so many books I want to and am sincerely interested in reading remain forgotten and unread. It all stems from the fact … Continue reading How NOT to Read – Part 2 (reading lists)
How NOT to be functional 